What’s the friendliest dog breed?
You might think that’s an easy question to answer, but it’s not. While some breeds have lived happily with humans for centuries, much of a dog’s temperament is shaped by the first months of their lives. Think of a puppy like a sponge: they soak up everything around them, both good and bad. Unlike a sponge, however, some things can’t be “rinsed” out of them easily or completely. A puppy that’s been left alone a lot or ignored or neglected by its humans will carry those experiences with them into adulthood. What you end up with is a dog that’s fearful of both people and the world around them, that’s likely to be uncomfortable with touch or cuddling, and that responds to ordinary events with fear-aggressiveness.
On the other hand, a puppy that’s learned how to interact positively with humans, other animals, and the outside world will usually grow up to be the kind of dog you want as a companion: a friendly dog. That kind of dog will typically greet strangers with a wagging tail, open eyes and what every dog caretaker knows as a “dog smile.”
While there are certain breeds known to be more friendly than others, you can help your dog learn how to be more sociable. First, expose your pup to a wide variety of people — men, women, children, older adults — and people with distinctive characteristics such as men with beards, people in wheelchairs or using an assistive device and even people with loud voices. If your dog’s only association with humans is just you, she could end up being wary of anyone that’s unfamiliar.
When people approach your dog, encourage them to pet him under his chin, on his back or side or on his chest, rather than his head. Watch for signs of discomfort like lip-licking, yawning or hard staring: if you spot any of these signs, move away from the person as diplomatically as possible. If your dog is shy with strangers, try giving her a treat so she learns to associate meeting new people with something positive.
All that being said, there are breeds that are predisposed to friendliness and gentleness. (Which doesn’t mean that rottweilers or pit bull terriers can’t be gentle and gregarious. Again, how they were raised is the primary key to a dog’s temperament.)
Many experts rank the golden and Labrador retrievers at the top of the friendly-dog list. Both are known for their benevolent nature, warm personality and unwavering sociability. Also ranking high on the friendliness scale is the Irish setter, a gorgeous redhead that loves people and is eager to show it. Just be aware that all these breeds are quite energetic, so daily exercise is a must.
Another big dog — with an emphasis on big, often tipping the scales at 150 pounds — is the Newfoundland. This cuddly, affectionate colossus absolutely adores people and other dogs. Just be prepared for regular brushing and abundant amounts of slobber.
Medium- and small-sized breeds that tend to be innately friendly include the beagle, a loyal, devoted dog with a strong desire to please. On the smaller side, the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel has a sweet, docile nature, and is an excellent companion for children and families. Border collies, though high in energy, are good-natured and very connected to their humans. One of the most popular small dogs today is the French bulldog, a generally friendly, playful and affectionate breed, although its flat face makes it prone to breathing issues.
In the end, remember that these breeds of “friendliest-dogs” are generalizations, and that each individual dog is unique.
Joan Merriam lives in Northern California with her Maine coon cat Indy, the infinite spirit of her beloved golden retriever Joey, and the abiding presence of her dog Casey, in whose memory this column is named. You can reach Joan at joan@joanmerriam.com.
